"Cowardice asks the question...is it safe? Expediency asks the question...is it politic? Vanity asks the question...is it popular? But conscience asks the question...is it right? And there comes a time when one must take a position that is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular but one must take it because it is right." ~Dr. Martin Luther King

Monday 8 August 2011

Yesterday

I didn't even  open up the computer. My great grand-baby twins were here for  a visit. They were two years old  in March. In the middle of the terrible year.

The first part of the day was taken up with going around the house and putting things up high before they got here.  Really high because two means  climbing  up to get at everything they see.  Or just to see what they might not be seeing. Some stuff  had to be dumped into a box and hidden under the bed.

But they were  hardly  in the house. The pool captivated them. Their home is  in Tacoma, Washington. On the Pugeot Sound. Ocean is  a word in  Reid's vocabulary. They just came from a month at the family cottage with lakefront on Georgian Bay. They are already familiar with  the fun water  provides.

Reid is a noisy boy . He shouts  and raises his arms in exultation with everything he accomplishes. Every time he does it. He throws the ball, he shouts. He catches the ball. he shouts. He kicks the ball. he shouts.

On the far side of the pool  are field stones. Quick as a flash, he picked one up and threw it into the pool. He did not shout. He was intent on doing what he intended  before anybody might stop him. He managed it once more before the day was done.

Claire also shouts. But she  concentrates  on making sure she is ahead of Reid in all things. 

At one point, great-aunt Theresa and  mother Vanessa  were both in the pool arms waiting  for each twin to  jump. Much as she enjoyed jumping she had to stop.  She had to get in front of Reid  to stop him from jumping into anybody's  arms while also protecting her own space.It was fascinating to watch her determination and the speed of movement.

Reid doesn't appear to pay a lot of attention to what Claire is doing but never at any time is Claire not conscious of Reid. 

She is  smaller than her brother. He looks like a normal two year old. But he weighs like a tank.I had to lift him to join her on my knee when I was singing the  jingle about head and shoulders knees and toes.

It was tricky for both to be  part of the action but a thumb on each nose  at the end brought gales of giggles  and a demand to do it again. Which I did. Despite my youngest son's broad hint that Granny should stop now.

There's nothing tedious about listening to the uninhibited laughter of a two year old  and  I had two on my lap.

It was a great day. They had cheesies and chips galore.Mum tempted them with strawberries and banana. They nibbled on  that too. But  chips and cheesies were best. Little fists took handfuls . Cheeks bulged.. Well......it was  better than candy or cookies.

They are not going home until mid September.  They are coming back to stay for a few days at Heather's house.  They will be here at the pool every day.

They are only two and a half.

But there's a chance a memory will  stick .

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

You should take them to the park and try the infamous climbing apparatus. See if they fall.

Anonymous said...

Evelyn

I just read the Auroran and comments from Susan Mortan Leonard.
Can this women be interviewed without slinging mud and insulting anyone who does not kiss her ass?

Anonymous said...

"You should take them to the park and try the infamous climbing apparatus. See if they fall".

What a most pleasant remark , I'm sure they have been to the park many times , but only accompanied by responsible parents!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Some would say that the parents complaining about the playground equipment are being responsible. They have identified a perceived problem and have acted. I cannot fault their parenting.

Christopher Watts said...

Some would say that the parents complaining about the playground equipment are being anything but responsible.

They have identified a perceived problem (the fact that their child is not agile enough to navigate the CSA approved equipment unsupervised), and have overacted.

Parenting is about taking responsibility, not trying to place it elsewhere. That seems to be a fault in their continued attempts to change the dynamic of an entire playground to address their perceived problem, and not one that is shared by the majority of those who enjoy the playground and the challenges necessary to child development that it provides.

Anonymous said...

I don't want to hijack this thread but I am happy to see Christopher post. He has not been doing so as often as he used to. Speaking of the past, has anyone heard from Robert the Bruce at all? His blog site has been quiet for a couple of months - I recall that he was travelling. He also has not posted here or on the A-C site for a while. I hope all is okay with him.

Anonymous said...

Evelyn

So much for the Jazz Queen moving on eh.